Wednesday 13 March 2019

There are more things on earth and in heaven..

A strange thing happened on the 30th December 2018 ...

When Betty met her mum

There was nothing extraordinary about the weather that day and we hadn't gone anywhere special for our walk, in fact we were simply playing ball on our local playing field, which is something we often do. As we walked and played, we spotted a lovely smiley Golden heading straight towards us.  Rather than their usual exuberant greeting when meeting a new Golden Retriever, my girls said a very gentle, yet warm hello, to this beautiful newcomer in their field. Polly quickly lost interest, then drifted off to her favourite sniffy trees, but the new Golden and Betty seemed to be familiar with one another, although I was sure we hadn't met this pretty Golden before.

She was a sweet natured girl and the gentleman walking her soon approached us, so we exchanged 'hello's' and had a little chat about our dogs while our dogs hung out together. I asked how old his girl was and he told me she was eight.  While we chatted, I watched her behaviour with Betty carefully and it became clear that our dogs were unusually at ease with one another. I became curious so asked the owner the name of his dog and ... after several more detective stylie questions (!) it transpired she was my Betty's mum! I hadn't seen her since collecting Betty at seven weeks old from a village several miles away and the chap walking her was the breeder's father, so of course, I hadn't recognised him ... but there is no doubt in my mind, mum Charlie had recognised her pup, my now four year old girl, Betty!

Bye mum, see you around soon!

I was so thrilled Betty had the chance to meet her mum again and wish I'd thought to snap a couple of photos at the moment they first met each other, but only managed these two rather fuzzy pics, taken a moment before we waved cheerio and 'hope to see you again soon'.


Sadly  it isn't to be, as I have just heard that poor Charlie passed away this week, after a sudden illness.  I feel absolutely heartbroken for Charlie's owner and her family, who I know, loved their girl very much.

So, my post today, is to celebrate Betty's beautiful mum, the most gentle of Goldens, taken far too young.  I will be forever grateful to her and her owner, for giving me my little Betty Boo, who just like her mum, is the most gentle of Golden girls, loves a tummy rub, her ball ... and brings me my slipper.

Sleep tight dear sweet Charlie and thank you from the bottom of my heart, for the smiles and love your pup gives me, each and every day.

xxx

Thursday 7 March 2019

Happy Birthday Polly

It has been an action packed, poo roll filled, barky, welly wearing, hard working and sometimes completely exasperating six years, but during that time Polly has taught me that life should always be enjoyed to the max in wide open spaces, fun can be had almost anywhere ... and loyalty and trust are almost as important as cheese and sausages. We have worked hard, played hard and snuggled together, every single day, without fail.

Polly, now aged 6

Polly at 7 weeks of age, on her first day at home.

Happy 6th Birthday to my beautiful 'Big Bird' today ... the really rather fabulous, Miss Terjack Terzi.

Monday 4 March 2019

Heading off an altercation

Why have I opted to use a Halti Head Harness to walk my girls?


It is is a question I am often asked and at face value, a fairly straightforward one to answer. I have found that the Halti ensures good control in most lead walking situations and as far as I am concerned, good control helps keep my girls safe.

I first introduced Betty to a Halti head harness as a last ditch attempt to find something to give me a little more control of my strong willed Miss, while I was trying to teach her to loose lead walk ... a skill she still highly disapproves of! We had reached a point with her training where she was so excitable and anxious on walks (and competitive with Polly), that the strong pulling on my left shoulder was taking a physical toll. I was reluctant to use the Halti initially, but decided to try a new approach with Betty, so bought one and haven't looked back since.  Betty is now almost four years old and with consistent training and time, has recently begun to walk more calmly on her lead most of the time (not always though, as new environments still send her excitement/anxiety levels through the roof to being with). So, in summary, Betty's Halti has helped me cope with her instinctive and very strong lead pulling and in doing so, has given us an opportunity to focus properly on loose lead training, which has in turn made our walks on the lead safer and more enjoyable for both of us.

Polly also wears a Halti now, but for a different reason. Polly walks beautifully on the lead ... there is absolutely no tension in the lead, it has a textbook 'U' bend and she politely adjusts her pace to suit mine. She is a true joy to lead walk. So, you might ask, why the Halti? Well, I introduced it shortly after we began walking with Betty as a puppy. At that time, Polly took it upon herself to guard her baby sister and me from oncoming dogs and began to bark and lunge if dogs approached from behind or in front, especially on narrow lanes. She had never done this before and controlling a five stone lunging goldie in full furious defence mode, plus a pulling puppy was stressful to say the least! 

At first I avoided the lanes we had so happily walked along previously, but the problem occurred in other places too, so I decided I needed more control to give me a chance to retrain my overly protective Big Sis.  The Halti has been a blessing in this regard, Polly accepted it without any resistance and even seemed relieved that the job of  'Chief Protector' could now be handed back to Mum. I continued to train both dogs on their Halti's to improve their individual issues and have had a good level of success with each of them. Walks have settled down and beca
ome enjoyable for us all again.

Having explained my reasons behind the Halti choice of walking gear, I am now going to have a grumble ...

As I mentioned in an earlier post, we were walking along a lane a couple of weeks ago, when a gang of five large rowdy dogs raced head first towards us. Thanks to the Halti I managed to steer both my girls to safety on that occasion without any adverse reaction from them. Without the Halti this incident would most likely have had a very different ending.

I am always happy to stop, wait and invite other walkers to pass us and also, to give space to other dog walkers when we are out walking. Sadly this weekend, we weren't afforded the same courtesy. Whilst stopping to take a wee by a fence on a narrow lane, poor Polly found herself nose to nose with a dog who appeared unexpectedly from behind, at the far end of an extending lead and pushed her face right into Polly's. It caught Polly completely unawares and she reacted badly by giving the other dog a good telling off  and a nip on the ear for its rude approach ... upsetting for the other owner who eventually caught up with his dog.  To be honest, it was also pretty devastating for me after six committed years of obedience training with my girl and having always tried my hardest to be considerate of other dog owners on our walks. 

The day after the wee incident, would you believe Polly stopped on our next walk to toilet and another owner allowed an off lead dog to wander over 'mid-poo' to say hello! Polly was obviously wearing her Halti, was on lead AND we had walked away from the very same dog and owner on the lane a few seconds earlier to give them and us space! Some people have absolutely no awareness of, or consideration for the needs of other dogs, it seems.

So, the upshot of my Halti ramble is, please remember that dogs wear them for sensible reasons; their owners may be using them to train, to maintain good control and of course, to keep other dogs safe. When you walk your dogs off lead, or on an extending lead (I hate those as they give no control) please stay focused on of the needs of those dogs on leads/head harnesses. Leads and head harnesses restrict a dog's freedom to extract themselves from difficulties, so if your dog barges up to say hello, they may well react badly, no matter how well trained they are. Responsible owners keep their dogs on leads for your benefit, as well as their own.

No one wants to have to deal with a dog altercation on a walk; it is stressful, potentially dangerous and ruins what should be an enjoyable experience. 

I am just a owner, who enjoys training her dogs and tries to be considerate of other dog owners. For what it is worth, here are my thoughts, based on my own experiences, on how to keep your dog out of trouble on paths and lanes:

1. Give other dog walkers plenty of space.

2. Never walk past a dog walker from behind without first making them aware you are there. Check their dog is okay with dogs approaching in narrow areas, from behind.

3. Give other dog walkers time to organise their dogs, so you can all pass one another safely, especially in confined areas.

4. If your dog doesn't cope well with lead introductions, don't allow them to happen. Teach your dog to sit calmly and wait at a distance, or teach a 'turn' command to change direction and avoid head to head approaches when necessary.

5. If you do need to pass an oncoming dog walker in a narrow space, try not to walk the dogs towards one another, head to head. Curve your dog away from the oncoming dog and if possible put yourself between your dog and the oncoming dog.

6. If your dog spies an oncoming dog and goes into 'stalk' mode, stop walking and change direction. Change direction by calling your dog in a happy but firm voice, use treats if necessary but change your route and break your dog's focus on the oncoming dog in plenty of time. If necessary, call out to the other owner and ask them to stand still while you encourage your own dog away.

7. Do not allow your dog to drag you over to say hello to another dog on lead.

8. If your dog is off lead and you see a dog on lead approaching you, PUT YOUR DOG ON LEAD. 

9. If you can't recall your dog, don't allow him to walk off lead.

10. Don't be afraid to call out to another dog owner in a friendly manner, to ask them to put their dog on lead, or to stand still for a moment to give you space while you organise your own dog.

And finally, don't allow your dog to approach a dog in the middle of their toilet! You wouldn't like it if someone barged into your bathroom while you were perched on the throne and neither will a dog!!!

Safe dog walking folks!

:-)


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